Thank you for all of your comments, phone calls and E-mails. I really didn't post about my experience to get any sympathy, but I have really been blessed by having so many care about me.
Update- I now have had this experience 5 times. The last three times I could tell that it was going to happen again. Once I become paralyzed and am able to talk again, usually 10 min. later, I can tell someone else to begin to move my body. Starting with my fingers helps so I can begin to work on the rest myself. The next 24 hours I feel totally wasted. Extremely sore and tired.
I have had total blood work up and a MRI done, of which I was having another episode during, and both have turned up negative. We have ruled out MS, Lupus, and heart, lung, and metabolic problems. I am now waiting to see a neurologist and will probably have an EEG done.
I have become less scared of the episodes and more frustrated that we can't fix me. I hope that we can find what is wrong and get started fixing it soon.